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Tuesday, 30 June 2015

John Legend's wife posts another topless shot on Instagram

John Legend's wife, Chrissy Teigen who likes to post topless shots of herself on social media and has had them taken down by Instagram countless times, decided to see how far she could push it again on Tuesday.
The model uploaded a picture of herself in a make-up chair, strategically covering one of her nipples with a can of hairspray

Photos: New start for Chris Brown, buys new home, gets new tat

Chris Breezy bought a new home, got a new tattoo on his neck, cut his hair, now has a new hairstyle and a new start hopefully with his daughter, now that he is done with Karrueche Tran. He titled the picture above as: Mood (Sleep through it). Picture of his new home after the cut..

Lagos housewife mysteriously dies after birth of twins

A 35 year old housewife reportedly died mysteriously a few days after she gave birth to a set of twins on Aya-Oye Street, Ejiigbo,  a suburb of Lagos..
It was alleged that after she got pregnant, her married lover, identified simply as Fatai, took her to the home of a single mother (names withheld) in Aya-Oye Street, Ejigbo, to cover up the shame.

It was learnt that Joy already had 3 children from her estranged husband who resides somewhere in Surulere before she became pregnant for Fatai who resides at Abaranje in Ikotun area.

A neighbour,  Iya Kubirat said:
“I can’t say what was responsible for her death because the incident occurred a few days after she was delivered of the babies in a hospital and was brought back to the woman’s flat.   She was found dead, foaming in her mouth on top of a bed in one of the rooms in the flat.
“When the woman who harboured her in the flat heard the babies crying, she went to Joy’s room to find out what was happening only to discover that Joy was dead. She raised an alarm which attracted neighbours. I was among the people who rushed to the flat. The cause of Joy’s death could not be immediately ascertained as there was no report of autopsy from any doctor.”
However, the woman who harboured Joy contacted her husband and family members to come get her corpse but they rejected her corpse.  She then contacted Fatai who showed up at the place and also refused to take responsibility for her burial.

It was gathered that Fatai explained that he did not marry her as hence would not accept the corpse for burial, despite being the father of the twins.

The deceased’s corpse was later deposited at Isolo General Hospital mortuary after Joy’s elder sister arrived.

Meanwhile,  the twin babies were handed over to Fatai who took them to his house at Ikotun.

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PDP Receives Over 1000 Memoranda Over Jonathan, Others Defeat

The Post Election Review Committee of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) yesterday disclosed that it has received over a 1000 memoranda from party members over the poor showing of the party at the last presidential, governorship, federal and state legislative elections.
The committee therefore declared that it will commence a tour of the six geopolitical zones to meet with party members even as they invited more members to send in more memoranda on the way forward for the party.
This was disclosed yesterday by the chairman of the PDP post election committee, deputy senate president, Sen. Ike Ekweremadu, at a press conference after the committee met in Abuja.
The committee which was setup in April, after the general election, was mandated among other things to look into the issues that led to the party’s poor performance at the elections.
When asked how many memoranda the committee has received, Sen. Ekweremadu, who stated that the committee has a 10 week window to finalise its work said, “Over 1,000 memoranda submitted so far.”
Ekweremadu added that review committee was set up to amongst other things draw up a road map for the party’s reconciliation, saying that “we have now come to another critical point, we now want to take our work to the ordinary people of PDP in respective zones and states.”
He said the teams that will tour geopolitical zones to get memoranda, consists of three members

ABDUCTION: Gunmen In Military Uniform Kidnap Wife Of Former Bayelsa Speaker

Suspected kidnappers in military uniforms yesterday struck again in Yenagoa ,Bayelsa State, and abducted the 48-year-old wife of the former Speaker and acting governor of the state, Hon. Nestor Binabo.
Mrs. Martha Binabo, according to the State Police Command,was abducted on Monday at about 11:30am at the premises of Seleyibo Multi-Global Coy Ltd, along Agbura community in Yenagoa Local Government Area of the state.
LEADERSHIP gathered that the abducted wife of the former Speaker of the State House of Assembly and former acting governor is the director of the company that specializes in the distributions of alcoholic drinks, including Guinness.
Some close family members believe the woman’s abduction may be connected with the decision of her husband to defect to the All Progressives Congress (APC) after his expulsion from the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP).
Others, including security agents, insisted that the abduction was purely a criminal act by some elements.
Eyewitness account claimed that the kidnappers, who were dressed in full military uniform, asked the manager about the whereabouts of the woman with excuse that the transaction is huge and from the Commander of the Joint Military Task Force (JTF) , Major-General Emmanuel Atewe.
After informing her, the manager took her to meet them and he left. They asked the woman to follow them to the JTF Headquarters under the pretext of introducing her to the JTF Commander.
Accordng to the witness, Mrs Binabo asked them to wait and allow her get her bag and they allowed her get her bag but her perceived delay at entering the vehicle forced them to push her into it.
“It was then it dawned on her workers that they are kidnappers and not JTF men,” he said.
The husband to the victim, Hon. Nestor Binabo, confirmed the kidnap of his wife but refused to make further comments.
Spokesman of the State Police Command, Butwat Astimin, said the kidnappers forced her into an ash-coloured Toyota Camry Car, chasis No. JTDBE32K620105302, and drove to Otuokpoti Sand Dump in Ogbia LGA where they set the car ablaze, transfered her to a waiting speedboat and sped off.
He said the marine police, the JTF, and other police anti-kidnapping units had been alerted, and that a massive manhunt had been launched to rescue the victim and arrest the abductors.

I could have joined Arsenal before now – Cech

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cech2Petr Cech has revealed that he almost joined Arsenal in 2002, but the move did not happen because of work permit issues.
The Gunners made the Czech goalkeeper their first summer signing, after they agreed a £10million fee with rivals Chelsea on Monday.
Cech joined the Blues in 2004 from Rennes, but could have been playing in the Premier League before then.I didn’t really miss much but all I’ve managed to achieve in the past decade, if I can replicate here will be brilliant,” he said.
Speaking with the club’s official channel, Cech continued: “There was a chance before I went to France that I could sign for Arsenal but I was only 18 or 19 and at that time Czech Republic were not in the European Union.
“You needed a work permit and the conditions were to play 75 per cent of the first-team games for the national team, which at the time was impossible for me to get. In the end I went to France because I couldn’t get a work permit.
“I had a few teams who were interested but Arsenal was one of the main ones. I was so excited because of the Premier League and big clubs but unfortunately it was not the time for me to come “It was later with Chelsea, and I’m obviously grateful for that, but you can never prepare the ways in your life and you’ll never know where you’ll end up. So here we are. Cech won four Premier League titles, four FA Cups, three Capital One Cups, the Champions League and the Europa League during his 11 years with Chelsea

Bring Eagles back to Lagos, Chukwu tells NFF

Bring Eagles back to Lagos, Chukwu tells NFF
AFormer Super Eagles coach, Christian Chukwu, has added his voice to the growing calls for the national team to play its home matches in Lagos. Chukwu told our correspondent that it was imperative for the Eagles to play their home matches at a permanent venue instead of the current arrangement whereby the national team is taken from one state to another.
He said having the Eagles face boisterous Lagos fans could propel them to better performances especially in crucial matches. Although the former Green Eagles captain admitted that logistics could be a challenge especially infrastructures, he urged the Federal Government to urgently refurbish the decaying National Stadium Lagos to ease the problem. “Eagles normally play their matches at a permanent venue and that was Lagos in the past and I am worried that this is no longer the case. I understand we have challenges with the National Stadium in Lagos but if we are serious we can get it back to shape.
“There are a lot of advantages for the team to play in Lagos, the fans will come and they can also help the team win matches. Eagles rarely lose at home when they were playing in Lagos and we can bring all of these memories back,” he said. On the rift between the NFF, national team coach, Stephen Keshi, and captain Vincent Enyeama, Chukwu said the federation should not have allowed the matter degenerate to a crisis. “I think the issue is overhyped.
The NFF has not handled the matter very well and I will advise them to sort this issue out now and allow peace to reign. The time and energy we would have dispensed in investigating the matter should be channeled towards the preparation for the Africa Nations Cup qualifiers. “What is going on can affect the team’s chances and we cannot afford to miss the AFCON ticket this time,” he said

USA reach Women’s World Cup final



USA reach Women’s World Cup final
The USA are set to play in their fourth Women’s World Cup final after beating two-time winners Germany at the Olympic Stadium in Montreal.
Germany striker Celia Sasic missed a penalty on 58 minutes, but USA captain Carli Lloyd kept her head to score from the spot 10 minutes later.
Substitute Kelley O’Hara booked the USA’s place in the final six minutes from time with a close-range volley.
The winners will play England or Japan in Vancouver at 00:00 BST on Monday.
It was a hard-fought semi-final encounter played out in front of a partisan crowd of more than 50,000, but English-born coach Jill Ellis’s USA side took their chances to end Germany’s World Cup dreams.
Olympic champion’s USA came into the match boasting the meanest defence of the tournament; in five games only Australia had beaten goalkeeper Hope Solo and that was in their opening match.
Germany, in contrast, came into the game as the highest scorers, but Solo’s goal withstood Silvia Neid’s European champions – even when they were handed a penalty shortly after the start of the second half.
The tournament’s leading scorer Sasic looked on course to add to her tally of six goals after Julie Johnston pulled down Alexandra Popp in the box just as the forward bore down on Solo’s goal early in the second period

Skye Bank closes Mainstreet integration

Skye Bank closes Mainstreet integration

Skye Bank Plc has announced the successful conclusion of its integration process with Mainstreet Bank Limited, which it acquired late last year “in line with its longterm vision of playing a leadership role in Nigeria’s financial services industry.” The bank said in a statement made available to news men that six months after it took over Mainstreet Bank, it seamlessly achieved the harmonisation and integration of their processes, procedures, structures, operations, human capital and all the other scheduled tasks.
The statement quoted the Group Managing Director/ Chief Executive Officer of the bank, Mr. Timothy Oguntayo, as promising in a letter he addressed to the customers, that the lender was set to unleash the full potentials of the combined strengths of the two institutions for better customer service, customer experience and value creation for all its stakeholders. “We are committed to pushing the frontiers of technology and innovation to enhance stakeholder value at optimised cost, and offer delightful customer experience.
We will therefore continue to make the required investments in people, process and technology to meet this commitment”, he reassured customers of the bank. Oguntayo disclosed that Skye Bank’s total branch network stood at 469, while its Automated Teller Machine (ATM) network has increased to 815 across the country, with an asset base of N1.5 trillion.
The implications of these for the customers, he said include better access to the bank’s service channels, cutting edge technology, and stronger balance sheet to support their businesses. The Skye Bank boss said In line with the bank’s growth strategy, and preparatory to the acquisition, the lender had made enormous investments in both its human capital and information technology, two critical assets that define organsational success. He noted that the bank’s new banking software, Oracle Flexcube 12.0, with its multi – functional capabilities, is one of the best and most recent inventions

‘34m Children Out Of School In Conflict Countries’


A new report by the United Nations Educational Scientific and Cultural Organisation (UNESCO), yesterday in its Education For All Global Monitoring Report (EFA GMR) shows that 34 million children and adolescents are out of school in conflict-affected countries.
It added that the most vulnerable are the hardest hit as the poorest are twice as likely to be out of school as their counterparts in peaceful countries.
The paper further showed that $2.3 billion is required to place them in school – ten times the amount that education is receiving from humanitarian aid right now.
The report released yesterday revealed that for primary education, an extra $38 is needed per child in conflict situations while $113 is needed per adolescent in lower secondary education
UNESCO’s Director General, Irina Bokova said, “Returning to school may be the only flicker of hope and normality for many children and youth in countries engulfed in crises,”
“The Incheon Declaration adopted by 160 countries commits to meeting the needs of these populations through more resilient, resistive and inclusive education systems and a response to crisis that spans the phases of emergency, recovery and building. Education must be seen as part of the first response when crisis hits and an integral part of any peace building strategy,” she said
The report revealed that one of the core reasons conflict is taking such a heavy toll on education is lack of financing and that in 2014, education received only two per cent of humanitarian aid.
It added that if the target had been met in 2013, it would have left 15.5 million children and youth without any humanitaria

Man United make £28.6m Ramos bid

Manchester United have made a £28.6m bid for Real Madrid defender Sergio Ramos.
The Red Devils believe the 29-year-old wants to leave Real after they failed to offer him an extension to his contract, which expires in 2017.
The Spain international has made 445 appearances for the Bernabeu club.
United manager Louis van Gaal wants defensive reinforcements to help his team improve on last season’s fourth-place Premier League finish.
Ramos joined Real from Sevilla in 2005 and scored their injury-time equaliser in their Champions League final victory over Atletico Madrid in 2014.
He has 128 Spain caps and was in the starting line-up as they won Euro 2008, Euro 2012 and the 2010 World Cup.
The Old Trafford club have also been linked with Southampton midfielder Morgan Schneiderlin, 25, reports the BBC.
Saints manager Ronald Koeman said he had “doubts” about the Frenchman’s future on the south coast, but added the club is yet to receive a “serious bid” from United.
He told Southampton’s YouTube channel: “We will wait, but OK – that’s business that normally starts from now.”

Customers rush to beat BVN registration deadline


  • CBN rules out extension after today

Customers yesterday besieged banks nationwide in a bid to beat today’s deadline for the completion of the Bank Verification Number (BVN) which will enable them to have unfettered access to their accounts They, They, however, complained of shortage of forms, failure of banks to alert customers that have completed the process and other general hitches characterised the BVN registration process. Some bank customers who are yet to enroll on the BVN platform called for an extension; while others attempted to close their accounts for fear that they could be denied access to their money at the expiration of the deadline.
But the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) has ruled out extending the BVN registration deadline. Out of about 40 million bank customers, available data indicated that less than 20 million had been registered as at yesterday. Checks by New Telegraph at bank branches in Abuja, Lagos, Ibadan, Port Harcourt and other major cities in the country showed that customers were at the banks even before the offices were opened for business to complete their BVN registration. At Access Bank branch located within the premises of the FMBN Corporate headquarters at Central Business District Abuja, our correspondent witnessed a large crowd of customers struggling to fill the BVN forms in order to complete the process. The same trend was observed at Unity Bank Plc, Ecobank Nigeria Plc and Union Bank of Nigeria Plc – all within the premises and vicinity of FMBN premises.
Banks located on the outskirts of the Abuja metropolis experienced a similar development. The huge crowd slowed down normal banking transactions of deposit and withdrawals as banks’ staff had a hectic time coping with the crowd. At the Central Business District centre of Access Bank branch, New Telegraph overheard a customer complaining to a bank official that though he completed the BVN registration two weeks ago, he was yet to get his BVN number through a Short Messaging System (SMS). Another customer said the registration forms were insufficient to go round the crowd.
A bank official who declined to be named told our correspondent that she and her colleagues had been under pressure since last Thursday attending to a large number of customers she described as “late BVN process starters.” She blamed the customers for waiting until the last minute to come for the registration, pointing out that the process had been on for the last six months. Similarly, in Lagos, customers complained that banks did not assign adequate personnel to handle the exercise even when it became obvious that many people would wait until the last minute to register. A bank customer at First Bank branch at Agidingbi, Bose Oguntoyinbo, said: “I arrived at the bank by 8. am and I did not register until 2 pm. The crowd was just so much.” She urged the CBN to extend the deadline so that more bank customers would be enrolled on the BVN platform.
Also, in Oyo State, customers besieged commercial banks to register for the BVN. Some of the banks had to create a special arrangement where the customers were kept outside the banking hall before they could be attended to. At the First Bank branch, Mokola, Ibadan, the management avoided a situation where the banking hall would be jam-packed by mounting a canopy within the premises of the bank where they directed anyone for the BVN registration to wait until he could be attended to. A customer who identified herself as Tolu, said: “In fact, the situation is chaotic today.
I don’t know when I am going to leave here with this huge number of customers. It is a mistake that I did not register until now. Many like me who believe that there was still time waited till today to face this rigour.” Asked whether the exercise was worth the trouble, Tolu said: “I believe so. The aim, I was told, is to plug the series of holes through which fraud was being perpetrated through banks. I think it will have positive effect on all of us. A situation where strange money would be deposited in innocent people’s bank accounts and later withdrawn without the account owner knowing or having access to it will be prevented.” Bank customers in Pankshin, Plateau State, also for called for the extension of the BVN registration.
The only two operating banks in Pankshin, UBA and Unity Bank Plc, were crowded with customers jostling to beat the deadline. Some of the customers, who spoke with the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN), appealed to CBN to extend the deadline. Hajiya Hadiza Yusuf, a housewife, said she was not aware of the ongoing verification till last weekend. “My friend and I left our children at home in Dengi, Kanam Local Government Area, to Pankshin for the exercise but we are afraid if we can register,“ she said. Mr. Litpan Ezra, a student of the Federal College of Education, Pankshin, appealed to CBN to consider those yet to register. Ezra said many would not be able to register, adding, “The authorities should extend the deadline and equally go on massive enlightenment campaign to enable those in the remote places register,” he said. But the CBN has rejected appeal to extend the registration deadline.
Director, Corporate Communications, CBN,Mr. Ibrahim Mu’azu, said the deadline for registration remained today. He added that bank customers were given adequate time and CBN expected they should have taken advantage of the period scheduled for the exercise to register. Contrary to the speculation that customers who do not have BVN will be prevented from making transactions such as payments and withdrawals, Mu’azu said only customers using remote access services: Internet banking, Automated Teller Machines (ATMs) and other online services would not be able to transact. Meanwhile, the CBN has concluded arrangements to enroll Nigerians living abroad that have bank accounts in Nigeria on the BVN platform. New Telegraph had reported that the exercise, which is expected to commence today, would begin with those living in the United Kingdom.
The registration, according to CBN sources, would be executed through the outlets of Outsourcing Services International (OSI) and extended to the United States as well as China. New Telegraph learnt that the technical partner to the BVN project, Nigeria Interbank Settlement System (NIBSS) and the CBN have sealed an agreement to this effect with the OSI. Hitherto, Nigerians in Diaspora had been worried about how to enroll for the BVN – with most of them lamenting that it makes no economic sense for them to travel down to Nigeria for the exercise. There are millions of Nigerians residing overseas executing banking services in Nigeria through various electronic platforms

Sunday, 28 June 2015

Birthday: Pastor Gives Out 22 Cars

The senior pastor of Champions Royal Assembly, Kubwa, Abuja, Joshua Iginla, on Sunday gave out 22 cars and millions of naira ranging from N50,000 to N500,000.
The pastor, who celebrated his birthday and that of his wife at the service, also unveiled 33 books written by him.
carssPresenting the cars, among which were 10 SUV cars to the beneficiaries, Iginla challenged the well-to-do in the society to assist the less-privileged.
The pastor, who said that he had tasted poverty and knew how it felt, said the less-privileged of today could become important personalities tomorrow.
“My birthday is all about giving to the needy. What I do here is just 10 per cent of what I do secretly.
“I give to teach people and to provoke them to give.I have many people on scholarship, I have widows on my payroll, we have rescued prostitutes and empowered them with skills acquisition programmes, I have orphans I am taking care of,” he said.
“I have schools of the handicapped that we have been assisting and the physically-challenged students irrespective of their religions. Gospel is practical, not only spiritual,” he said.
Iginla said this was the third time that he would be giving out all his cars without leaving any one behind for himself

OAU is Africa’s best

when they beat their counterparts from the University of Pretoria to win the Manfred Lachs Space Law Moot Competition, a regional contest held at the Pretoria High Court in South Africa. CALEB ADEBAYO (Graduating law student) reports.
•Varsity wins regional Law contest
You could cut through the tension in the Palace of Justice of the Pretoria High Court in South Africa that day with a knife. The courtroom was filled with people who came to watch legal fireworks by the opposing counsel. The outcome of the case was not to jail anyone; it was all part of the thrills and frills at the grand finale of the regional Manfred Lachs Space Law Moot Contest held in Pretoria.
Students of the Obafemi Awolowo University (OAU) in Ile-Ife, Osun State, thrilled members of the audience with their knowledge of the law when they met their counterparts from the University of Pretoria at the final  of the competition. OAU students won.
•The moot session
The Manfred Lachs Space Law Moot Competition is a yearly contest where law students worldwide show their litigation proficiency in proceedings based on international space law disputes. The contest imitates proceedings at the International Court of Justice.
This year’s edition was hosted by the South African Council for Space Affairs (SACSA), a space science regulatory body affiliated to South Africa’s Department of Trade and Industry, in collaboration with the Aerospace Industry Support Initiative.
The argument centred on dispute between two hypothetical countries – SPIDR and URA. It was to present issues relating to the response to a threat posed by the risk of collision of the earth with Near Earth Objects (NEOs). Counsel from each school addressed the utilisation of natural resources and liability for damages occasioned by the NEOs.
Six African universities, including OAU, University of Pretoria, Niger Delta University also from Nigeria, Makerere University in Uganda, University of Juba in South Sudan, and Mount Kenya University, participated in the competition.
The OAU counsel comprised John Odey, Peace Onashile and Toheeb Amuda, the team’s researcher. All of them are 400-Level students. Their lecturer, Dr Oduola Orifowomo, was their coach.
For three days, the teams argued their cases on the legality of outer space science. The OAU team beat the University of Pretoria and Niger Delta University at the preliminary stages.
Phethole Sekhula, a South African lawyer, Icho Kealetswe, an advocate of the High Court of Botswana and Christopher Okegbe, a solicitor from Nigeria presided over the final.
The grand finale was a show of forensic advocacy and oratorical skills as the counsel came up with their arguments. For every principle of law cited by the South African team, the OAU counsel had an answer.
It was be the fourth time OAU would be winning the regional contest. It won it in 2011, 2012 and 2014. The team also won the   Best Written Brief of Argument award.
The OAU students described the feat as “hard-won”, saying they faced many hurdles to win the contest. They praised their coach, whose expertise in space law, they said, helped them to come up with valid arguments.
Peace said: “The competition gave us the opportunity to engage our peers in other parts of Africa in an area of law which is seemingly unregulated. We matched our advocacy acuity with oratorical skills to win the contest.”
Asked about the team’s winning secret, John, the lead speaker, said: “From the onset, we were confronted with vague terms on the field of law that we were not familiar with. It was our task to break it down to understand the meaning of the terms to present our cases in Space Law. The team was conscious of the responsibility placed upon it and we moved faster to argue our points. The victory was not easy to come by; we fought hard and came out successful at the end.”
Dr Orifowomo hailed the students for the feat, saying his team proved to be formidable with its grasp of the fundamentals of space law as exhibited by the  members. He dedicated the victory to the moot and mock group of its OAU’s Faculty of Law, hailing its commitment to the knowledge of space law.
Dr Orifowomo also praised the OAU Vice-Chancellor, Prof Bamitale Omole, and the Dean of Law, Prof M.O. Adediran, for their support.
The OAU students will represent Africa in the international edition of the contest in Israel in October. It will be held during the 66th International Astronautical Congress.

‘I married her despite our age difference

‘I married her despite our age difference’
Confession: They say that age is only a number, and that maturity comes with age. In this story, a young man finds his missing rib at a party. However, he faces opposition when he decides to marry this tender, loving, but older woman.
My name is Chizoba and the story I am about to tell is that of a couple who triumphed in marriage in spite of age difference. This is my story: I was a young man fighting a war of survival. I came from an ignorant and illiterate family background but with strong will to survive.
Some felt I was snobish to the opposite sex who sought my friendship, but it was a self-check mechanism to keep girls at bay.
Then there was this neighbour who I met at a party one Easter Monday. When she first introduced herself to me as Beauty, she gave me such a lovely smile that I had to admit that she was beautiful just like her name. said.
Beauty was seven years older than me but I didn’t mind because I was already in love with her. We had danced and talked during the party and noted that we had one thing in common which was the fact that we could really dance well, in addition to my humorous disposition. So we stuck together.
What went in her favour was that she was not arrogant. She was humble and had a generous disposition. We became friends against my friends’ expectations that I go for a younger person when they thought our friendship was getting too close for comfort.
Unlike other ladies who usually took from me, this lady was always ready to profer solutions to problems. When I became a student in a polytechnic, she was there for me. From time to time, she wrote this kind of lovely poems for me:
I may not have the prettiest face for you to look at
Or the skinniest waist for you to hold but I do promise
The biggest heart to love you with. Every night when I look at the moon, it reminds me of you,
how you can see the same moon. It makes me sometimes sad
because I can see the moon, but I can´t see you. I miss you lot my dear love.
As we grow older together, As we continue to change with age, There is one thing that will never change. . .
I will always keep falling in love with you.
I took you as my friend and locked you
in my heart. Now the key is missing
But I’m happy because
You are safe in my heart till my
heart beats stop.
She also told me cute love stories like this:
Two Butterflies
Were In Love.
One Day They
Decided To Play
Hide N Seek,
They Fixed A
Flower And Decided That
Tomorrow The One Who Will Come
First And Sit On This Flower
Will Love The Other More.
At Morning The Male Butterfly Came
Very Early
And Waited For The Flower To Open.
When It Opened,
He Was Shocked To See That,
The Female Butterfly Had Died Inside It,
Because She Was Waiting Since Last
Night To Tell Him…
How much she loves him.
When I was still trying to take a decision on whether to marry my wife or not because of the age difference, I received some pieces of advice from some wise and elderly people. First, they said that there is no ideal age difference. It all depends on what you want.
A woman your age or older tends to act more mature than you but it doesn’t matter because you can grow to love and be compatible with each other. Second, age difference in marriage is a personal thing.
And those who think that a man will pamper a woman if he is older than her are wrong because marriage is not built on pampering. It dwells more on compatibility because two cannot work together except there is an agreement between them.
There is no guarantee that being married to an older man is an assurance that one’s marriage will work out perfectly. These older men were once young people and being old doesn’t necessarily mean that one is wiser, although in most cases maturity comes with age.
I strongly believe that maturity comes with time or age. So in this respect, as the young husband grows older, he also grows in maturity (except there’s something wrong with him mentally).
Although there is no stipulated age difference between a man and a woman who have agreed to live as man and wife, I believe that a man should be the head of the family since according to the Scriptures, a man remains the head of the family irrespective of the fact that he may be the older or younger partner in the marriage. A woman’s role in the marriage is basically that of a helpmate, irrespective of her age. The truth is that it’s not easy for a woman to be submissive to a man, whether she is older than him or not.
But some people say that it would be harder for a woman to be submissive to her husband if she realises that she is older than him. However, if a woman truly loves her man and has a sense of maturity, she will be submissive to her younger lover. So, it depends on the woman’s level of maturity.
Again, being submissive is not dependent on having a younger or older lover but depends on good upbringing. If a woman is from a good home, she will be submissive to her husband. But if she is not from a good home, she may not be submissive. If she’s not the submissive type, challenges may arise.
But then, if you are convinced that she’s the one for you, I see no reason both of you shouldn’t get married. It all depends on how you can properly manage the challenges you face. As long as both of you are happy with each other and okay with it, there will really be no problem. So, that was how my relationship with the love of my life until she became pregnant for me.
That sealed it even though my elder sister was against our getting married because of the age difference. My mum was with me, after all as her only son she wanted me to get married quickly and give her grandchildren.
Later my sweetheart gave birth to a baby girl. I was still a student. So, we had to take the initiative of meeting her relatives who took me in as their son. There was no going back.
The two families agreed to solemniswe the relationship that turned out to be a reference point of what marriage should be inspite of the age difference.
That’s because she gives me due respect. She has been a good wife to me for more than three decades. We have lived in bliss as husband and wife with four wonderful children. We have now left government service and are now managing a small business together to the glory of God

Nobody can predict President Buhari’s moves – Bolaji Abdullahi

Mallam Bolaji Abdullahi, former Minister of Sports and Deputy Director of Policy and Strategy of the Buhari Campaign, is a man of many parts – scholar, journalist, politician, shadow boxer and now a farmer. But he also said he is a comedian when BIODUN OYELEYE met him for an exploration of issues around the Nigerian social and political system. He did not disappoint as he gave in-depth analysis of key sectors of the Nigerian economy and what the Muhammadu Buhari government should do to meet the yearnings of Nigerians. But he dismissed anyone with claims to knowing what is on the President’s mind for, according to him, for now, ‘only President Buhari knows what President Buhari is thinking.’ And there is a reason for that.
What have you been doing since you left office?
Well I have been busy trying to build my businesses here and there. I am a farmer so I need to build my farm and when the political process started I got active in the process; I was Deputy Director of Policy and Strategy of the Buhari Campaign, working with Dr, Kayode Fayemi of Ekiti State. That has kept me busy. Generally, it’s been over two years now that I left office, but I thank God.
Why is farming a major attraction to public office-holders in Nigeria, particularly after leaving office?
I think the reason is that when you are a public officer, you are not supposed to run a business at the same time except if it is farming. So those of us who even had some businesses before we went into public office, those businesses suffer because we can no longer run them. But the one you are allowed even by law to do as a public office is farming. So it is easy even from that point of view. But personally for me I believe it is the future of the Nigerian economy. The profile of farming is increasing everyday. I see young people who introduce themselves to me as farmers so that gives a lot of hope. I have a daughter here who wants to study agriculture and sometimes I wonder why; but I am encouraging her. I think it is the future of the Nigerian economy. I have always loved to do it; I am the child of a farmer so maybe it has always been in my DNA.
What do you see as major challenges for farmers in Nigeria?
I think it depends on the kind of farming you are doing. The challenges of animal farming are different from those of crop farming. I’ve done fish farming before. I have made money from it and lost a lot of money to it. The challenges related to fish farming are peculiar and different from other kinds of animal farming.
The fist challenge is the market. You could see that over the years even at government level the focus has been to help farmers increase production, giving high yield seed and fertiliser support to farmers and in some cases irrigation support etc. That helps a lot but the challenge for most farmers is after increased production, then what happens?
So whenever there is a glut in the market, either for crop or animal products, then you realise you don’t get value for the effort. So, the number one challenge for anyone going into farming is to ask that question and get it clearly: Where is my market? If you are able to sign a purchase agreement before hand that is the best; otherwise you must keep your eye on where to sell.
When you produce and y o u are happy but can’t sell that is a problem. The second one is funding. There is so much noise about banks giving credits to farmers at special rates and all that but you can’t get the money. If you try to get it they tell you to go and bring your grandmother’s front tooth and all that; its difficult so most people would rather use their savings to do farming and that is a high risk. But by and by so many people are making different things in agriculture and they are making money.
I believe there is still so much money in the sector if we can provide the right kind of support. That is why we should all be happy that President Buhari is saying that one of the approaches to tacking the big issue of youth unemployment is by exploring opportunities in the agriculture and mining sectors.
But many young people still see agric as unattractive.
I think if the immediate past Minister of Agriculture didn’t achieve anything at all, he was able to enhance the profile of farming with the concept of value addition and agribusiness. And I’m telling you so many young people are going into farming. I met a young guy recently, who has a huge farm in Nasarawa, and there is another lady, Mosunmola who has almost become iconic; she has a huge farm in Ogun state. I think the redefinition of the practice as agribusiness has also helped. Many people are leaving banks now to start business in agriculture. And it is not all about farming; you can produce, be involved in processing, marketing, transportation etc which are all part of the entire value chain of the business. So many people are investing in it but there are a lot of policy issues that need to be in place before it can really be entrenched and taken seriously as a business.
What are the specific policy issues you believe should be tackled in the sector?
The issues are very clear and so much has been said on what to do to turn around the agric sector. I think the most important thing is for government to provide real access to credit. If government is able to provide the framework, the Agric Development Bank needs to be rejuvenated. The Bank of Industry (BoI) has done quite well over the last couple of years but the BoI is not an agriculture bank. We need to rebuild the agric bank and create platforms for specific portfolio of loans to farmers. They exist theoretically but we need to make it really available so that small farm holders can have access to micro credit and do their farming. And people who want to process can have loans to do it etc. An integrated package of loans to support the sector will show that government really wants to create an industry with farming.
There is no way we can rebuild the North-East after the damage of Boko Haram if we don’t do serious rethinking on our agricultural support system because it is only through agriculture that we can rebuild the North-East. The second policy area is in infrastructure, especially for those who do crops. There is no reason why Nigerians cannot farm all year round. Small scale irrigation systems have to be built. Other countries have shown that even in the desert you can set up irrigation system for farming. I think it is one area that should be considered. But the most important is how do we build the agricultural market? There are issues about the old marketing boards and people have said we don’t need to go back down that road again; that it was a corrupt system.
It was not a corrupt system, rather it was the system that got corrupted. So I am a believer in the need for us to look at it again; and see how we can make it more efficient and find ways to remove the corruption elements we might see around it. I think unless we are able to create guaranteed markets which some countries are doing now, for instance if you buy pineapple off the shelf in any supermarket in the UK, chances are that it comes from Ghana because of the large support the government there has given farmers. They have large cooperatives, standard grading systems, inspection, customs and excise – all integrated into one place so that farmers can benefit. Some people are asking for guaranteed purchase from government but with the kind of fiscal crises we are facing I don’t know ho feasible that is. But whatever we do in the sector for now must focus on creating the market. We are lucky we are a big country so we can consume our own produce. But even at that the kind of market that exists in the African sub-region alone is massive. So I think those are the key factors to look into.
Between paying subsidy on fuel marketers and farmers which would you say it the right way for Nigeria?
I’m sure you know the answer. The subsidy itself is not a bad thing because countries use it to support social redistribution of wealth. But what has happened in the subsidy regime in Nigeria is that it has become a massive arena for corruption so much that whatever benefit meant for the people has been overwhelmed by the corruption around. Everybody who knows anything about the sector would tell you that it is a massive racket. If you go across the River Niger here even in the best of seasons people buy fuel not from the pump and not at control price. So you wonder what has been subsidised. So my personal opinion is that this is the best moment for government to do something about that, especially given the resource crises that we are facing at the moment. If we can liberalise the market to make it competitive and with government regulation I think Nigerians will be fine with it. This is because there is no point saying you are putting a tight lead on the market and people cannot get the commodity. There are long queues everywhere. You paralyse the economy for days, put government under intense pressure and having to bring out money and throw it at marketers and everybody will be doing abracadabra. Few people will be making money and queues will just disappear to start another time. Removing subsidy is politically contentious I must admit but this government has a great opportunity to do it. So if government is able to do that whatever savings we can make from that can go to not only agriculture but also education, health etc. These are the real areas we ought to subsidise. If you want to subsidise people then subsidise education, health, agriculture.
Nigerians are wondering whether those in the think tank of the APC didn’t consider the current scenario playing out in the party all through the stages of your campaign and election preparations to have provided possible solutions.
When people say crisis I wonder what they mean. You see, democracy is by definition organised chaos; it is about contestation of ideas and interests. Whenever you have interests colliding, you will have this kind of situation; but it is not a crisis. Like I said during the campaign that PDP needed to lose the last election to rediscover itself. At that point PDP had become constipated on power and every other thing and doctors will tell you that is a danger to the body. The first thing they will tell you is to stay away from eating. So PDP needed to lose that election to rediscover itself and I think even the most loyal PDP member will agree with that; that they needed to rebuild, to recalibrate after 16 years in power. Maybe they will be able to recalibrate, I don’t know.
For APC, it is an agglomeration of parties united by the desire to bring change to Nigeria; what people would like to call strange bedfellows. But what you find is that APC needed the attraction for power to evolve into a proper political party and luckily that is what we are now. So what you are seeing is a process of becoming; it is not a crisis.
When a child is growing up, learning to crawl, such a child will crumble trying to get up from its seat. That is not a crisis but part of the process of growing up. When a child tries to get up and falls the parents won’t scream and say we are in trouble, this child is going to die, because they know it is normal. Yes, the child may fall and sometimes hit his head on the ground and there will be bleeding but he will pick himself up again and walk eventually. So that is what we are experiencing at the moment. But you will see that the party will find a way around it and it would evolve.
PDP had been in power for 16 years, they had all these teething problems as well so APC will not by pass this stage of growing; it will go through this teething problem as well but come out of it stronger.
But some people are saying you are inadvertently giving the opportunity for the PDP to rediscover itself by allowing a PDP man to become the Deputy Senate President?
I don’t think like that. If PDP thinks that all it has to do to start rediscovering itself is for a member to become the Deputy Senate President then good luck to them. All I know is that getting out of power gives the PDP an opportunity to rebuild. If they think that becoming DSP is the kind of rebuilding they need to do, good luck to them but I don’t think it translates into anything because the SP and DSP and others are just principal officers of the National Assembly elected among their peers. It doesn’t have any implication for the larger political system. It is just National Assembly people electing officers for themselves. But we have attached so much drama to it that it appears that the whole country now depends on what happens in the National Assembly contest.
Maybe because people think that it may affect considerations for bills, appointments and other power dynamics here and there.
I know one thing, at least I had been a minister and so I have gone through screening at the Senate. I know that those things don’t have implications for ministerial appointments. The President nominates his ministers and sends the list to the National Assembly. Usually, it is the President’s Special Adviser on National Assembly Matters that takes the list to the Senate President. The President of the Senate is a member of the APC and the President of the country is a member of the APC. So how would that affect anything? Or are you now telling me that because the DSP is a member of the PDP he can stop a bill in a Senate presided over by an APC Senate President and where APC is still in the majority? I think people are just exaggerating a passing situation. Sometimes in politics you hear people saying things like because this thing has happened it will permanently affect a situation or things will never remain the same again. No, history doesn’t function that way. I can’t remember who said that even the most cataclysmic event doesn’t really change the course of history not to talk of minor events of people appointing their principal officers changing the course of history in Nigeria. If you want to be mischievous, yes you can begin to focus on those negative things instead of the positive sides of it I think it is a great opportunity for APC to be in power at this time and I think President Buhari, given time, is capable of turning things around for Nigeria. I think that Dr. Saraki as Senate President would be a great asset to President Buhari in the course of rebuilding the country.
You have worked with the two of them though at different levels. What are the things you see that can make them work together?
Saraki is someone who understands only results; he drives himself selflessly. He has a tunnel vision and a singular commitment to getting results; so that helps. From what I have heard people say about President Buhari and on the few occasions I have the opportunity to sit in the same room and observe him either talk to people or grant an interview, it was clear to me that he is a very perceptive leader; he is highly experienced. You will be amazed at how much he knows about Nigeria and what is happening now even though he has been out of power for over 30 years. I have heard him discuss the oil industry before and seriously I have heard so many people discuss the industry before but only very few people can claim to know that sector more than the President. I am not surprised he was a petroleum minister; that is not enough, you can see that it is a sector that he has engaged in. He can always focus on real issues.
Some people are against the provision of financial bailout for states going though fiscal crisis now because they believe governors have mismanaged their resources. What is your position?
Reading through the papers the domestic debts of the states run into billions of naira while that of the Federal Government is into trillions. So would you say that the Federal Government owes that much because it has mismanaged resources? No doubt that one or to states have mismanaged their resources but I think it will be unfair to say that all states have mismanaged their resources and that is why they are in this dire situation. At least I know for my state, Kwara. I’ve told whoever cares to listen that I doubt if you can find many governors or people who know how to manage public sector finance better than Governor AbdulFatah Ahmed. Right from the time he was commissioner for finance I’ve always known that. So if Kwara is finding itself in a financial situation like this then it is definitely not because of financial mismanagement; I can tell you that for sure because I know the person in charge understands financial management better than many people. I think we have found ourselves in a situation and I don’t think we should be looking for whom to blame. And the governors, from what I read, are not asking for bailout per se. One of the things they are asking for is that let all remittances be made into the Federation Account as required by the constitution. That is not too much to ask for. They are saying let the Federal Government pay all the outstanding as a result of federal projects that were executed by the various states. That too is not too much to ask fort and if you look at the response of the President they are saying the same thing. It is too simplistic to just blame the governors. We should look at the source when things like this happen. We have walked through this before. In 1983 when Buhari came on board, unfortunately it was the same scenario that Nigeria was. It is his destiny again to come some 33 years later and find the same situation or even worse.
Do you see a Greece scenario coming up in Nigeria?
No. Nigeria will never get to that level. You see the Nigerian economy is so robust and it lies on not only because we are an oil producing country. The private sector in Nigeria is very strong; the financial sector is still very strong. Last year when the Federal Government did the rebasing of the GDP, that positioned us as still the number one economy on the African continent. That counts for so much. I think what happened was that we didn’t do some things right. When the oil prices were going up, we ought to have prepared for the volatility. But lack of preparedness exposed us to the shock when the prices climbed down.
And that is the major reason that has caused this situation.
But we had a finance minister who is supposed to be one of the best in the world?
Well, I don’t want to be judgmental. I know Dr. Okonjo Iwealla. I worked with her in the federal cabinet and I think she is very good at what she does. I am not a financial expert so I cannot explain what happened but I know that Okonjo-Iweala is very good at what she does; but she didn’’t take the political decisions. She is a technical person. She would not be the reason that the excess crude account would go down by almost 70 per cent overnight. She couldn’t take such decisions.
I think like President Buhari said, the things that happened would need to be investigated and in the next couple of months Nigerians will know what really happened.
Have you spoken with former President Goodluck Jonathan since you were sacked as Minister of Sports?
No, I have not. And that is because I don’t think we need to discuss. And now I don’t think we need to raise the issue again. It is over and in the past. Please let’s move on.
People speak of cabals around Presidents. What is your understanding of this?
I don’t know if there are cabals as people call it but I know that it is human nature that wherever there is power, people will gravitate towards that. When they do, they are not doing that most of the times for altruistic reasons. They are doing so for personal benefits or the ability to be the source of authority or to be at the epicentre of authority. So people tend to run a ring around the ultimate source of authority in any system, hoping that they would be able to exercise power in the process by surrogacy.
So I think it is natural and I don’t know if that is what you call cabalism but I don’t think President Buhari is that kind of person that can be… I think he is too selfassured and too clear-headed about what he wants to do with Nigeria. And that is why; forget about all the noise going around, if anyone tells you today that he knows exactly what President Buhari is thinking about, that person is lying to you. It’s only President Buhari that knows what President Buhari wants to do and that is so for a reason.
He knows that ultimately he has to take responsibility for his actions and so he can only trust himself for now. When he sets up a government properly he will then begin to delegate some of the authority that Nigerians have given him to some individuals. Even then he is responsible for them because he knows that it was him Nigerians gave their mandate.
So I don’t think for a president who has run to be president four times and was able to get it at the fourth attempt I think more than any other person he is aware of the enormity of the historical burden upon him. I don’t think he would just mortgage that to a coupe of people who have other agenda regardless of what you call them.
What is your picture of the Nigerian sports sector and the way out?
It is an important sector for Nigeria especially since you have a huge population. Sports provide great opportunities for engaging young people. The challenge that we have in the sector is fundamental in the sense that as a country we have not been able to define the parameters for success within the sector. What do we really expect? I said a couple of weeks ago that Nigerians are too fixated on medals for the country. Countries that have developed sports did not get to the level they have achieved just because they want to win trophies.
What they have done is to build the system that allows young people to participate in sports. The more young people you have playing sports, the higher the chances you have for discovering real talents. Then because you are not under pressure to win trophies overnight, you are able to build a system that nurtures those athletes over the years. It doesn’t happen overnight.
If you enrol an eight year old child in a sport it will probably take you 10 years to get him to participate at the elite level. But here we are; we don’t even have the basic structure for developing athletes. We just gather athletes that we think can win, then miracles happen like that of Chioma Ajunwa in 1996 and then we say we have arrived. No we haven’t. When we won the AFCON in 2013 in South Africa and everybody was celebrating that we had arrived, even though I was very proud of that achievement but I knew that was not the destination. It took us about 19 years to win the AFCON after 1994 and I said then that God forbid that it takes another 19 years again before we win it.
And I wasn’t being prophetic when I said that but look at it that we didn’t even qualify for the next edition after that win. I knew what we did; we gave everything the country needed to win that but I knew that despite our victory we had to go back to work. We have to build the entire system, if we are to win consistently. And we started along that line before I left office and everything went back to zero. I think we are even now in a more complicated situation than even before I got there. Now a lot of things have been dismantled but I think it is not impossible to fix. Whoever has the responsibility now I think there are still people in that National Sports Commission that know what to be done. It is one sector you cannot come to command and control.
But we need a serious reorientation. When we came back from London Olympics I knew we had a lot to do. We are facing Brazil in 2016 and I will be surprised if we win anything in Brazil 2016.
I don’t think we have done any work. Because the work we needed to do was very clear and I set it out before the Federal Executive Council when we came back from London that this is what other countries that are winning medals are doing and unless we do the same thing we will continue to have this sorry situation.
How much of those things we need to do have we done? Even if we did all those things, they still do not guarantee that Brazil 2016 will return medals. But one thing I was absolutely sure of is that if we did those things if we don’t win medals in Brazil, then I can guarantee that 2020 Olympics, Nigeria will win medals and that was what we were working towards. It is a long term thing. It is like educating a child. If we want to revamp the education sector it will take us, given the situation we have found ourselves where we have students who have completed their secondary school but who cannot read. It will take us 10 years minimum of consistent, uninterrupted reform activities to get it back on track.
Imagine you have the privilege to pick between Ministry of Sports and Education to lead as minister, which would be your choice now?
That is hypothetical because President doesn’t call people to choose. I think in the context of where we have found ourselves today both sectors are very important. The sports sector is very important in the sense that apart from the public relations benefits that it has for Nigeria, it is a huge market; only that we have not able to build it and encourage funding to come into the system. When the sports sector is fully developed, the Federal Government’s financial involvement will actually be very minimal.
The private sector will be able to undertake the funding because they also have values coming to them from the sector through their brands. But because of the way we have managed the sector the appetite for involvement by the private sector is very low. I don’t blame them because they are in business to make profit. If you give them value, they will buy it. I have also practised in the education sector in Kwara and my experience shows that if Nigeria has one big problem today apart from Boko Haram, the problem is in the education sector. I think it will not be an exaggeration to say that the sector is in a mess. Nigeria is one of the few countries in the world today where parents got better education than their children.
It is not natural. So you find out that those who are getting educated today are children of the elites; I am not talking of those who are attending schools because we have more people attending schools today than at any point in our history. In fact we are spending money on education more than we have done at any point in our history. But the question is what are we spending that money on, what are kind of result are we expecting? Are we getting those results? As long as we have 10-year old in our primary schools who are not able to read, then we are not meeting our primary objectives. The implication for society is very huge and so o think the challenge before President Buhari in that sector is massive and it requires a lot of all creative thinking, hands on solutions. You cannot have quality secondary education if you don’t have quality primary education.
That is why it is a long term endeavour. And you cannot have quality primary education unless you have quality teaching. It is not about classrooms and furniture though they are important. The big issue is the quality of teaching and the quality of teachers. If you are not able to improve on the two you cannot have quality primary education. And unfortunately this is the area we have problems in this country. How do we turn people who are currently in the teaching service into effective teachers? How do we attract good, competent people to take on teaching as a profession? What implications does it have for the colleges of education where we produce our teachers?
What is that thing Nigerians don’t know about you?
What I think people will be surprised to know about me is that I like to tell jokes a lot. I like to play a lot; I like to laugh a lot. I think if I take a job in the stand-up comedy business, of course I will need some years of training under Ali Baba, but I will do well. That is what people don’t know. Most of the time people see this stern looking, serious man; yes I am all those but when I am not working the place I want to be is with my family and they will tell you that I am the comedian of the house

I’ll abort this!

I’ll abort this!
Mama and Sam stare at each other. For the first time in his life, Sam looks and holds his mother’s gaze. He is a man and should be able to say what he wants and he wants Kim! “Samson,” mama called, not removing her eyes from his face. “Mama,” he replied, shifting uncomfortably. “Samson.” This time, it’s almost a whisper.
“Ma,” he said, wearily. He is tired. He had thought that after the long drive in the inclement weather, he would be welcomed with a delicious, hot meal and a warm bed.
Well, he got the meal, as delicious and hot as it could be. But though a warm bed is waiting for him, mama is making his head throb. The stress is just too much. He yawns.
“Mama, I drove all the way from Lagos in very bad weather. It rained more than half of the journey. I thought I’d rest once I got to the village.
As it is now, I’m very tired and would like to go to bed and sleep,” he said with a yawn. “Oh my son. Sorry my son. You should be sleeping now. But wait, did you say that that girl is pregnant?
For who? Does she have a womb? I know you’re wise enough to remember that it’s a taboo in our land for a woman to be pregnant out of wedlock.
It’s a big shame on the family of the girl,” mama said, shaking her head.
“It’s no shame on anybody. Kim is not from this town…” Sam said wearily. “Yes, she’s not from here. She couldn’t have been.
She should be from a shameless town where their women go about naked. I will have none of such nonsense. My well brought up child will not mingle with irresponsible women,” mama said angrily.
“Your well brought up son has mingled with this irresponsible woman and right now, my child is growing in her womb.
Mama, I love Kim. She’s a good girl. She accepted me when other girls took my money and went away because they felt I was less of a man. Kim stood by me! Mama, how else does a woman prove her love? She accepted me, warts and all, mama…” Sam said. Mama cut in, “She accepted you.
So I should rub white powder on my face and dance to the market because that girl accepted you?” “Mama, I love Kim and she loves me. I will marry her,” he said, stubbornly.
He is grown now and his mother will not flog him. He is ready to stand up to his mother for once. On this issue of marrying Kim, he will have his way, even if it means earning his mother’s wrath.
He’s not ready to go through the pains of denial from girls who clearly love him but are put off by the size of his manhood.
He is therefore ready to tell his mother his mind. He’s so engrossed in his thoughts that he doesn’t see the transformation of his mother’s face. Mama feels as if cold water has been thrown on her face.
Wait!
What have I been saying? What is wrong with me? My son brought a ‘problem solved’ to me and I’m kicking up dust?
Haaaaaaaa! Who did this to me? I would have been battling with my blood pressure if I had to get a wife for another inadequately endowed son.
He brings a girl, who not only is ready to settle down with him, but is already pregnant for him, and I’m talking customs and tradition?
Martha! After what I went through with Ojie’s wife? Haaaaaaaaaa! I must accept this young woman who accepted my son.
I must woo her. Her face creases into a smile. “Samson…Samson,” she called him. “Mama,” he responded. “Now listen to me carefully.
You must marry that girl. Em…em…what do you call her name again…you must marry her,” she said.
The wind leaves Sam. The storm had been building in him, he was choosing the words to say to his mother in order to convince her that Kim is a good girl!
“Mama, is there any problem? I can’t seem to understand you anymore,” he said. “There is no problem Sammy. But there will be a big one if you fail to convince your wife that I love her,” mama said without looking up.
Hmmmmmmmm! Sam stares at his mother for a long time.
He remembers that he read somewhere that when people get old, their mind and brain sometimes turn to that of babies.
Could that be what is happening to his mother now? But she’s not so old and has been talking with presence of mind till a few moments ago!
Fear clutches at his heart. Is this how people age within a twinkle of an eye?
“Mama, I don’t seem to understand you anymore. What is happening? Is there any problem?” He asked.
“No my son. There’s no problem. What an old man sees sitting down, a young man will not see it even if he climbs the highest tree. Go in to your wife. Let her know that she’s my daughter.
We will talk about your marriage in the morning. I will talk to your uncles tomorrow,” mama said endearingly.
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Kim has packed her bag. She lies on the bed seething with anger. If this is what marriage is all about, she’ll rather remain single.
How can a woman who knows her not from Eve hate her on sight? Is that the reason her mother never talked about the man who impregnated her -her father?
Is that the reason she never married her father? She turns on the bed. Is she going to end up like her mother and have a child of no known father?
No! It won’t happen to her. She’s not going to let it turn into a generational curse.
She’ll abort the pregnancy and wait for her own husband. She has no mother that will take care of a fatherless baby and even if she has, she rejects single motherhood.
She’ll leave first thing in the morning and try sort herself out. Enough of this rubbish.
As she tries to close her eyes, the door creaks and she turns to see Sam coming into the room. He looks so tired! “Baby, are you still awake? I thought you’d be sleeping by now,” he said, sliding on the bed beside her.
“How could I be asleep after the bile your saintly mother vomited? What did I do to her to earn such hatred from her? Did I run after you?
Was it not you that came after me? Anyway, it’s going to end tomorrow. I’m leaving in the morning. I’m going back to the city.
Let your mother get you the well brought up girl that befits you.
As for this pregnancy, it will be in past tense after tomorrow,” she said angrily, turning on her side of the bed. Sam freezes!
How is he going to handle this fire of a woman? “Baby, you ain’t leaving. You ain’t aborting that pregnancy.
We are getting married,” he said. “Getting married? Who are the ‘we’ here?
Definite not you and I. In fact, I’m getting rid of this baby immediately I get into the city tomorrow.
Let your mother get you a secondary virgin for all I care!” she threw the words at him. Sam sits up immediately. Abortion?
Oh no! “Baby please, mama doesn’t mean anything she said. Please baby.
Mama actually loves you. She’s talking to my uncles about our marriage tomorrow. Baby, please talk to me,” Sam said.
His heart is breaking. How’s he going to talk Kim out of this abortion? She can be extremely difficult.
“Baby, please talk to me,” he said, shaking her shoulder gently.
“Sam, I want to sleep.
Maybe, we will talk about this in the morning,” she said. “”Promise?” Sam asked. “Yes,” Kim replied. Sam is not convinced.
Once Kim is like this, you expect trouble. He tries not to sleep till morning.
He actually kept awake till around 4am. By the time he wakes around 6.30am, Kim has disappeared. Her bag too.
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Oh My Gosh! What’s happening here?
Where has Kim disappeared to? Did she make good her threat of aborting the pregnancy?
Let’s find out on Sunday

Grounded by mad cow, victim seeks help

Grounded by mad cow, victim seeks help
Like every other boy of his age, Daniel Imo Emori was full of ambition after his final examination at the Senior Secondary School level. Even, when financial difficulty posed a stumbling block to his dream of furthering his education, he took his destiny in his own hands.
At 21, he was employed as a machine operator in a plastic company in Onitsha, Anambra State but his quest for greener pastures prompted him to quit the job. He sponsored himself to a driving school and graduated.
Luck smiled on him when almost immediately after completing his driving school training, he secured a job as a delivery van driver with a pharmaceutical company. Alas! His dreams were cut short and shattered when in the line of duty he was knocked down by a mad cow and suffered what was later discovered to be cervical injury. Welcome to the pathetic world of Daniel, a 33 year old man from Adadama Community in Abi Local Government Area of Cross River State who has been bedridden for 11 years. If he remains that way by October 10 this year, it will be 12 years since his life story changed for the worse. A conversation on telephone would not suggest that Daniel who now hopes in God to use his limbs again is bedridden.
A meeting in his one-room apartment with his assistant, Nicholas at Dusten Makaranta, a suburb of the Federal Capital Territory, Abuja was quite revealing and emotional. Daniel, who is the fifth in the family of eight, was lying face up and unable to turn either way when Sunday Telegraph paid him a visit in his small room. Though he managed a smile, our correspondent could see that he was really in need of ugrnet help. It was actually Nicholas who was waiting by the road side to usher in this correspondent into the apartment rented by a good Samaritan, Rev. Charles Nonso Asiedu. The Good Samaritan is a senior pastor at Lifelink World Outreach Ministry International in Lagos.
Asiedu, who came across Daniel’s story on Facebook through the efforts of another journalist, had moved him to Abuja for proper medical treatment last year. Taking up the narration, Daniel said: “It was after my SSCE in 2000 that I travelled to Onitsha in search of greener pastures. I was employed in a plastic company as a machine operator. But after two years the company’s work was not that conducive so I saved some money and went to a driving school. It was after the training that I was employed by one pharmaceutical company, Rico by name.
“On October 10, 2003 as I was going about my official duty as a delivery van driver. I was supplying our products to various customers. I parked my vehicle in front of the customer’s shop to offload the goods. I was alighting from the vehicle without knowing that a stray cow was running at full speed in my direction. It hit me with its horns and left me in this condition.
“At that moment I was first rushed to a nearby clinic and the following day I was taken to the University of Nigeria Teaching Hospital, Enugu. After some medical examinations, they found that I had an internal injury in my neck and spinal cord. The medical report also mentioned cervical injury. They requested the payment of an emergency fee of N75,000 before treatment. So it was when we could not afford the emergency fee after four months that I was discharged. Since then, I have been at home. “In 2013, I was chatting on Facebook I got in touch with a journalist and as we were chatting I told him my condition and situation. I asked him to publish my story.
He started sharing it on his Facebook page and in the process one pastor from Delta State saw the post. “They interacted and the pastor was convinced that what he posted on Facebook was true. He came to Calabar and located my village in January 2014. In February last year the pastor brought me to Abuja and I was taken to one Indian hospital at Karu, Primus Hospital. On arrival at the hospital, they requested for a deposit of N450,000.
After that, they requested for N200,000 for a medical examination and he paid it. “After the medical examination, they now requested for N1.2 million for surgery. The pastor paid it and the operation was carried out. After I was discharged the doctor recommended a followup. He also said I would be going for physiotherapy and other treatments. It was then the pastor said he didn’t have such money.”
Daniel said he was then referred me to a physiotherapy clinic in Wuse, Abuja known as Optimal Centre. It was in the process of their own examination that they discovered that both my limbs were stiff due to the prolonged time he had been bedridden. “They said the total solution would be limbs replacement. They then consulted an Indian hospital which gave them a bill of about $4,350. This is approximately N9 million and the pastor said he doesn’t have such money.
I’m appealing to Nigerians for help. As you can see, my two legs are stiff, I can’t move them,” he stated. What about the pharmaceutical company? He said that at that time there was no means of communication. He said he was with his mother in the hospital and after about two three months, nothing was done. His elder brother visited the company at Onitsha and the director brought out a list of the money they had sent through one of the managers, which didn’t reach him in the hospital. “Currently, I’m 33 years old. I was 21 when I had the accident. My mother is alive but she is ageing.
My father died June 12, 2009. The pastor paid for my accommodation and also pays this young man monthly to take care of me. It is only my head that is not 100 per cent affected but from my neck down is paralysed. I can’t fold my hands. I can’t sit down and I cannot turn,” he added. He has been refereed to a specialist hospital in India, Saket City Hospital, to undergo five different levels of treatment.
Specifically, Daniel who is full of hope that he will walk with his legs again, needs general body examination and evaluation, infection control for the urethra and pressure sores, plastic surgery, complete knee replacement and osteoporosis management. He looks up to well meaning Nigerians to help him to raise the fund so that he can fulfill his dream in life.
His account details are Daniel Imo Emori Fidelity Bank 6160829205 or First Bank 3045515111. While he can be reached on 08098929156 and 08086387108

Davido in NDLEA trouble

  • We are investigating him, says agency

Multiple award winner and international act, Davido, is in trouble with the National Drug Law Enforcement Agency over his new song/video titled ‘Fans mi.’ NDLEA is currently investigating Davido (real name David Adeleke) for showc a s i n g hard drugs in the video featuring Maybach Group artist, Meek Mill. In the video, which has gone viral since it was released earlier this month, Davido is seen discussing with an unidentified man as they haggle over a briefcase of dollars and a bag full of parcels of hard drugs. There are also lewd scenes in the video.
The song is supposed to promote the Omo Baba Olowo crooner’s gratitude and appreciation to his fans for their love and support towards his career over the years. However, the singer was busy singing about his enemies and money, showcasing hard drugs, nudity and guns in the video.
Some fans have expressed dissatisfaction over the song/video, claiming the talented singer should have done better by showing pictures of his fans, his past shows and encounters with fans, rather than the display of hard drugs, nudity and guns. In an emailed comment to Sunday Telegraph, NDLEA’s Head of Public Affairs, Mr. Mitchell Ofoyeju, said, “The agency considers the musical video ‘Fans Mi’ inappropriate and indecent. It has the tendency to negatively influence and induce drug use and trafficking.
Besides, it is counter-productive on the campaign against drug production, trafficking and abuse. The agency is investigating the matter and will take necessary action.” Also speaking, popular music video critics, Mrs. Nuella O’Peters, said, “It’s really outrageous seeing a brand ambassador and a mentor to millions of African youths indulging in such acts. He even went as far as using the substance for cooking in the video.
Can you imagine! It’s uncalled for. I do hope the Nigeria Broadcasting Corporation will do something about the video.” Davido is a song writer, performer and a recording artiste from Nigeria. He recently postponed the release of his highly anticipated album on his birthday

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The singer released some shirts and a head warmer from his O.B.O clothing line and reports says they are already being sold on his website.
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Suicide bombers kill three in Maiduguri, injure 16

Two female suicide bombers killed at least three people and injured 16 in Maiduguri, the capital of Borno, yesterday.
Witnesses said the two women tried to get into a hospital but were stopped by security guards at the gate and blew themselves up.
“We evacuated the charred bodies of the two security guards, another civilian and the two bombers,” said Auwal Mohammed, a member of the community in Molai, where the hospital is situated.
A source at the mortuary of Borno State hospital in Maiduguri confirmed it had received three corpses after the blast.
Another hospital source said 16 people injured in the attack had been brought in.